One of the biggest tricks we play on ourselves about
getting organized is telling ourselves we will pick up
when we are done with whatever we are doing. Except,
what if we never seem done?
How many times have you avoided picking up because
you were...
not done?
going to make the same mess tomorrow?
waiting until you could do it right?
afraid of forgetting something if you put it away?
If you struggle with piles of stuff or clutter, you
might never feel done.
Take Brian's desk at work, for example. Brian never
wanted to pick up anything he was working on until
he was done. What was he doing the other day anyway?
Who knows? That got mixed in with today's mess when
he needed to see a client and shoved everything that
was not done under his desk (with yesterday's undone
stuff).
Brian had a back log of messes from never declaring
done (or at least done for now) with anything. For
Brian, being done was ambiguous until he never had to
look at something again. By then, organizing rarely
crossed his mind regardless of his good intentions of
picking up when he was done. As a result, being
organized had nothing to do with getting anything done
and one mess just blended into another.
See how something so simple as "When I am done,
I'll pick up" can turn into a clutter jungle?
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Tips for
avoiding the clutter jungle and the feeling of never
being done:
1) Prevention:
Start with current messes such as
undone work from today. Practice stopping, picking up.
Make a note about where you left off. Move on.
2) Stay on top of stuff by using Essential Action #1
from the Organic Organizing Matrix (sm/tm):
Keep like things with like things (i.e., all bills together or
items from one project together).
3) Make time:
List what you have to do. Make time for
each to-do in your schedule and add extra time for
picking up and organizing each one.
4) "Chunk" things down, create doable steps:
"Do taxes" or "clean garage" can seem too big. What specifically
needs to happen for the taxes to be done or a clean garage?
Keep "chunking" until you sense "That's easy!
I can do that!"
5) Set time limits:
You can set 5-30 minutes aside to
do one specific thing. Put a timer on, when it rings,
you are done.
Most of all, remember it is normal to make a mess in the
course of living. The trick is to make time for cleaning
up a part of the process!
And of course, remember to let it be easy!
About the Author:
Shannon Seek is available for private coaching, teamwork
and presentations on getting more focused, effective
and organized. For more information, please contact Seek Solutions
at: findit@seeksolutions.com or visit her coaching & consulting website:
http://www.seeksolutions.com
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